We know that in everything God works for the good of those who love him.
They are the people he called, because that was his plan.
– Romans 8:28 (New Century Version)
It is all due to His plan. he has a plan and things work out in accordance with His plan. Anything outside of His plan is outside of His will. That’s how it works out with God.
God wants something, though. He desires it both from us and for us. In essence, God wants something for us and from us. God wants us to be a blessing and to be blessed. God wants us blessed, and God wants us blessing others. God wants us getting all that He has to offer us. God wants us giving all that He gives to us to offer to others.
Maybe you are having a problem getting what God wants for you because you refuse to give what God wants from you. I know it sounds cold, but it’s a reality. You cannot get what you need or want because you have not released what God has told you to give up or give away. Maybe you need to make a change for the better and get back with God’s plan that it in His will. That would get you back to the point where all things work together for good.