Have you really had struggles or trials with patience?
Think back and see what you really thought during such times.
Were you eagerly awaiting something, only to discover that you needed to exercise patience?
Patience can become a problem when you have taken the ready position without any means of going forward. Some folks can this “the waiting game.” Others shout and pout or rant and rave. Yet, patience is what is required.
God expects us to await and remain aware. Some of God’s work is unfolding things in His own way despite everything being in His hands and under His control. He may just be watching us while we are waiting, seeing if we have the patience to persist. But patience also has its “perfect work.”
You might not like it, but it is part of how God works. You may want to quote some biblical eloquence about how God wants you blessed or why God has all things for all His children. However, let me allow the Scriptures to speak to that as well.
But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. – James 1:4
But in all things we commend ourselves as ministers of God: in much patience, in tribulations, in needs, in distresses,
– 2 Cor. 6:4
knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.- James
For this reason we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to ask that you may be filled with the knowledge of His will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding; that you may walk worthy of the Lord, fully pleasing Him, being fruitful in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of God; strengthened with all might, according to His glorious power, for all patience and longsuffering with joy; -Col. 1:9-11